How well we relate to ourselves, how well we relate to other people, which always comes about as result how we relate to our past. Being able to move forward into our future in life is absolutely determined by whether we’re willing to make peace and let go of our past and our willingness to forgive.
Forgiveness is about letting go, we have the choice to cling on to our hurt/pain/stuff etc or whether to let them go, as human beings we are all imperfect.
Only you can control how you react and respond to any circumstances or situations you find yourself in. You are the only person who can give yourself permission as to determine your outcome!